The post I wrote earlier tonight originally started as a big giant rant, but in writing it, I found that my ideas would be better communicated by splitting them up by subject. Here is the second subject I had in mind.
I am a big fan of the marketplace of ideas. You show me your ideas. I’ll show you mine. Let’s see whose sound the best.
To use a poker analogy. You have your hand. I have mine. We can bet all we want, but if we really believe in our hand, I mean really believe in it enough to not get bullied out of the hand by overenthusiastic betting, then at the end of the day, we’ve gotta lay our cards down and see who has the winning hand.
In my conversations believers aren’t willing to do this. They are either completely unwilling to showdown their entire hand (“I just believe I have the winning hand and you can’t convince me otherwise. It’s just a matter of faith”), or they will show most of their cards, but claim to hold tight to the cards that actually “make” their hand. They’ll show you the 7, 3, and J while claiming they still have two aces left that they aren’t going to show. They will claim with absolute certainty to have the winning hand.
Maybe they actually do, maybe they don’t. Who’s to say?
But there’s a lot to be said for why they wouldn’t be willing to show their cards in the first place. If they actually do have the winning hand, what’s the harm of showing? If their faith will actually stand up to the fire, why protect it?
I would say there are three distinct possible answers:
1. They know that they aren’t the best cards. This is possible, but unlikely. I don’t think people typically hold strongly to ideas they know are wrong.
2. They honestly have no idea what they actually hold and are embarrassed to be proven wrong.
3. They are unwilling to risk the possibility they are wrong due to an emotional investment in their ideas.
I think the last two are especially probable, but this is a bad thing. This keeps bad ideas alive. This is what I seek to avoid.
We must get over our emotional ties to bad ideas.
We must not be embarrassed to admit defeat if that admission promotes better ideas.